Endings and Beginnings

So today is the official beginning of a new academic year and I was supposed to write it yesterday but never mind. The last one month and few more days have been the probably the best set of days I could have imagined after school ended. Endless time to pass doing everything I liked, which involves eating, sleeping, watching shows and movies and ofcourse talking( chitter chatter) and yes this time everyday swimming. Not to brag but yes I swimmed in and around 1km everyday. 

Everything has to end for new things to start. I officially completed House today. I am to afraid of change and shifting to another show took me a long time. I had kept the last heartbreakingly wonderful episode for the end. In between I watched The Night manager, I started Chicago Med but I couldn't complete House. It felt too special just to end so soon. But then it had to. And it applies to everything in life. You can't hold onto stuff, people, emotions for long, if you do you are just suffocating yourself, so just let it go. Maybe better things would come along. Maybe you will realise why it didn't work that time and you will realise absolutely nobody was wrong. Those were just bad decisions at worse times. Now officially it's another year. The motive is to do the best for yourself and making sure that I don't involve myself in situations I am not ready for. For the next two years, to studies and movies and trips and to bring out the best version of yourself. To form attachments that I can hold on to. To not cry in times of distress and to have less regrets. To disappoint myself as less as possible. To not become like House although I haven't loved any character more than him. To avoid compromising on sleep. To be as regular in discussions as I can. 

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