Baby Talk and Last words

Today on a Sunday morning I was watching How I met your mother. Absolutely no will to study, I decided "let me waste some time and let the guilt work as it always does". Now the title is about the two episodes I watched right now and which absolutely compelled me to write this. In the first one, Ted told Robin how guys loved being felt needed in a girl's life and this made me wonder is being independent and headstrong such a turn off. Is it really being submissive which made things work better? Now this episode ends with Barney just absolutely loving the kind of attitude Robin has but we all know the fate of their relationship. So I could really use some honest opinion here. Does the "I got it" girl never get that kind of things she wants? Does being self assuring and self sufficient too much to deal with?

The next episode, it's about Marshall's father's death and his last words. Are last words  overrated? And is it just death what we mean when we think about last words. Aren't last words even existing with real time people. People we havent spoken with in a while or people we have stopped talking to. What if we don't remember our last words with people close to us. It might be long enough before we had a conversation. It reminds me of how much I forbid myself from saying "No" to people. I have regretted not saying stuff, not calling people, not opening up but all these efforts which I put now, just so as to not regret, is it worth it ? Would it possibly save me from not getting hurt ? I don't know, probably I will learn with time. 

Just me and my weird random thoughts which I pour in here from time to time. 

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